Have you said or feel something like this?or have you did this to others before?
"why am i left out?"
"why they treat me this way?"
"why can't they understand me?"
"why they say that to me which is harsh?"
"didn't they think before they say or do?"
Well i guess many people came across these before, either they did them or someone did that to them...maybe sometimes we shouldn't blame others or asking why why and why?stop with the why questions and try to think from others point of view, put yourself in others shoes...so what if you weren't treated with the way you expect others to treat you? it doesn't matter, you have your expectations, people have their way of doing things or thinking? God has made us all different so that the world is colorful.
We live in a house of mirrors
and think we are looking out the windows
quote Fritz Perls
This is true, when we were having expectations on other people, others will have expectations on us as well or vice versa. Before asking those why questions, ask yourself did you yourself live up to their expectations on you? if the answer is no, then you should not expect people will live exactly up to your expectation and whine when they don't. since that's the case, then why should us be so small-minded about them? let's not fret about petty stuff and think about other important stuff, i guess that will do us good more than anything. maybe i'm a careless person who never think so far away, i don't know whether it's a good thing or no, but i too, am learning.
Rather than having expectations on others, why don't we have expectations on ourselves? and asking why questions to ourselves..not having high expectations on others doesn't mean we can't have high expectations on ourselves...
Don't lower your expectations to meet your performance. Raise your level of performance to meet your expectations. Expect the best of yourself, and then do what is necessary to make it a reality.
LOL i know i've babbling...i write what came to my mind and so everything is like a bit here a bit there...neway, all da best people!!!
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